I agree with a lot of what you’ve re-iterated which was taken directly from the ladies’ response. I initially responded broadly without a lot of detail out of respect for people’s time. So I believe you may have misunderstood what I meant about feeling insecure as not wanting, or being able to handle the truth. That is far from it. Quite the contrary. One I’m a simple woman Deathly Hallows Star Wars and Doctor Who shirt need humans have is psychological safety. It plays an integral role in influencing the quality and overall satisfaction of our interpersonal relationships.
All relationships require us to consider the level of risk we are willing to take in maintaining them. We ask of ourselves questions based upon what we value or deem important. For example, are they trustworthy. Reliable. Kind and compassionate. Personally, I would rather not invest my energy in the type of friendship the young lady requires. I find the risk of her abandoning me should I have days or a season of difficulty, too great. Mental illness and unfortunate circumstances come to mind when I think of people being unwilling or able to participate fully in life.
Because her response struck me overall as lacking compassion, I wondered if she would befriend or abandon a person with I’m a simple woman Deathly Hallows Star Wars and Doctor Who shirt that was totally out of their control. As I see from the myriad responses, I am not the only one who felt her compassion not resonate with them. We see this differently and that’s okay. I’ll note that she doesn’t look very young to me. I’m 40 BTW I don’t think I look young either but I’ve been told by others I do, which is nice. But friendships as you noted are built on trust and often a very deep connection.
As noted I’m very similar to this woman in who I allow in and out of my life. If she is anything like me she would not allow herself to develop a relationship. With a person who is constantly in a toxic season. I’ll also note that very close friends. And family bonds are very difficult to break even with lots of drama or toxicity involved. Because I am very observant today of others, I notice tendencies about people especially related to complaining constantly, which I mentioned is a huge pet peeve of mine.
I don’t allow myself to become friends with people who complain a lot anymore. For those who are very close friends already or family members. I love I’m a simple woman Deathly Hallows Star Wars and Doctor Who shirt and encourage them to solve their issues and will help them to do so if I’m able. Telling someone these things doesn’t have to be harsh or cause abandonment. So I think I may just have a different view of it and that’s fine as everyone has varied perspectives.