I wonder if you’re projecting by making excuses for him and automatically assuming his parents caused his trauma, when there are so many Baby Yoda fight like a warrior fibromyalgia awareness t-shirt sources of trauma. I’m sorry, but if you decide to take drugs it is YOUR choice, no one else’s. It is NOT a shared responsibility, it’s neither the parents nor society’s fault but the person who made the decision.
Don’t cite crappy psychology to justify him. Also, all families are dysfunctional in their own way, and finally, it is not my Baby Yoda fight like a warrior to mend on Camaelshirt Trending. I am not making excuses. He needs to take responsibility, but so do his parents. It is extremely likely he went through trauma – but that doesn’t mean it was at his parents hand.
But if he experienced trauma, they should of been helping him cope with it. Everyone with Addiction has trauma. There is a lot of research on this. Parents need to teach their kids to take care of their body and MIND. Them apologizing for their Baby Yoda fight like a warrior fibromyalgia awareness t-shirt or not being there atleast will help him feel safer and be able to cope tremendously better than if they blame him for his choices or as I believe their biology, yet still responsible.
Because he just said they weren’t and didn’t know if he could come home., You can hold people responsible without being cruel and making them owe you. That should be pretty easy especially for a parent.
It is a choice during a tramatic event that leads to addiction. Who would hold someone at their lowest fully responsible for making a mistake. Not me. I have more compassion and understanding than that. There is obviously more to the story. All my information is from a well respected source and leading trauma psychologist in my area.
I disagree. His parents were hurt and when you love someone and you hurt them, you apologize. It’s called maturity. Sounds like he may be coming into it. I hope he does. I don’t believe however that he has to spend the rest of his Baby Yoda fight like a warrior fibromyalgia awareness t-shirt making up for past mistakes. The only person he needs to prove himself to IS himself. His parents already love him. He needs to love himself enough to stick to it.
I grew up in a home with two addicts. Addiction doesn’t get a sympathy pass from me. It is a self indulgent choice to drink and take drugs in the first place and remains to be a self indulgent self serving behavioural system on which a substance is prioritized over a human being they created. Nope. My life is permanently damaged due to addiction.
What I interpreted from who Susan was telling to grow up, wasn’t him but everyone else who were saying stuff against him. She started her with For those saying. To me, that implies she wasn’t directing her comment at him to grow up. I think she was just putting a comment out there. He doesnt owe them his life. They chose to have him and bring him into this world.
He does however owe them a large apology, and he owes Baby Yoda fight like a warrior fibromyalgia awareness t-shirt to himself to be clean and have a better life to be proud and happy for. He owes his parents to let them know he understands why they did what they did, and that he isnt angry.